The Best Gift You Can Give

Sometimes you can hear things 100 different times, all different ways. And then there is this one person that comes along that says the same thing their way. And you finally hear it!

One of my coaches recently said something that just hit me in a way that I needed so badly.

She said that one of the best gifts you can give the people you love the most is the gift of learning how to take care of yourself.

She said that when the people you love can take care of themselves, and especially when they are thriving, that it releases you from the pressure of wondering all the time how you can help them.

As someone who loves them, it helps you to breathe easier and relieves you from having to constantly worry about them. And it puts you in a position to enjoy time with each other more too.

Wow...I had never really thought about it like that before.

I always thought that I should learn how to do well so I can help take care of everyone else. But what if taking care of myself was always much bigger and more important than that? What if me being ok actually helps ease the minds of all of the people I love? What if me doing well actually makes my relationships all work better? And what if it also has the bonus of me being able to help them all too? It sounds like a win-win in every direction to me.

What if we all learned how to do this?

Think about it....

Who is constantly on your mind? The ones who are doing great or the ones who are barely making it through life?

My focus has been shifting for a while now with the work I do. My why is becoming deeper and more meaningful. And I think ideas like this can only lead to more good in my life. And in the lives of the people I love.

What about you? Did you know this already? Or was your mind blown too? If this shifted your perspective like it did mine...tell me about it!☼

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As always...I love you SO much and I hope that you have every great and wonderful thing that you can possibly imagine in this world. You are amazing and you deserve to love your life.

Love, Tami ♥

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